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1, I am your loyal hardcore FANS. your article I read every day. the current in Q 1, where seven hundred thirty-five see your reply, as I have something like a woman tell you. please forgive me if wrong advice. I am very optimistic about the No. 1 male infatuation. but he will portray the story of his too brief. I think it should be uncomfortable since it clear to the other. who know each other is not too painful in pain. is not looking forward to his change of heart. we are all adults, young people love the game should not be playing will not afford the. there is love to be bold and speak out, express it. Why are so loved now love toss? all understand the true meaning of the song, you can do a few reality. I think about life, love, happiness, marriage without love is essentially tragic. the world of the lovers should be less on the test and torment each other . Otherwise, most people will certainly take the old road, in the rest of his life in regret and recall. Shun sister, friends and more offensive. In fact, as a woman I never quite such a fool How come men do lives more degrees.
Oh, have a love marriage, divorce, no love. the beginning of all love, then no shadow of love. Love is both love each other, so when love left you, it happens again can not be stalker Otherwise, it is not called love, and called the Bride about.
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2, I told her boyfriend were together for almost two years, the Northeast, he is Korean, very bad temper, as long as the fight to break up with me. I temper is not good, but I have been running hard and he is also living with him in Beijing. his parents really like me, originally scheduled for February 2009 we registered, you can fight in November 2008 when he beat me, and I learned to give him, tell him to pay me 2,000 yuan, after which he quarrel with me because the gas will not ring true more often, and even talked the are not right. good times, said he was kidding me, he will be registered touched me. Later, because his mother did not want to keep We gave her dog, he wants the dog back to Beijing, I do not agree then, conflicts broke out, he mentioned breaking up. I save, or take the dog to carefully take care of, no think of Jan. 22, he moved to coax me to go to work after the steal, and also put the dog away, and then sent me a message that breaking up. I'm sorry I paid the time and feeling more regret one should not have such a small matter the derivative of our affection fire lock. I really do not know how to do, and I still need to remain living in Beijing?
girl, ah, this is not your right, that he deliberately finding fault to break up it, so you do not self-review. If no income in Beijing did not work, then back home now, do not delay their own. forget him, he as head Jiaolv, often on Liaojue Zi, Han is not a good thing , no need to wait for him to go back.
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3, I got married nearly nine years, children aged, fairly happy before birth, after which he suddenly felt his mother at his birth is not easy, to redouble his mother filial . not just because I did not fucking hospital, then let the children swim and fight. my mom feel bad, I called him, and he eight years regardless of how to take care of my mother helped him in his life work, my mother began to bear grudges. separated two months He said that we live together after repentance. child a year old, and his parents came to see a total of two children, we live in a city. This festival was to bring his child back to his house, I made it clear I do not go, and His parents still cold. He said the child also tied to a chair in the security back. Of course, after he gave up. own flesh and blood is not as important to his parents. New Year's Eve because I do not go his house for dinner, he does not come to my home. I Mom in front of him in recognition of how others deal with family relationships, he immediately hung up under the face, who started to ignore my mother. This year, kids are hard my mom.
I was angry, but call to his parents, his family are shielding him. He said I seriously hurt his parents, he could not accept. I have a cold hard by, and he knows I'm afraid of infected children back to their home, still too broken to his parents house five, came back late, I have a severe postpartum depression, total sleep, he thought to yourself. He lives every day to work and report to the parents, his parents ordered him to keep up their children pro. shun sister, such a man can be you?
wife and children because of the difficult witness, suddenly conscience of the need to honor his mother, this is a good thing, but he did not put a good thing to do, to honor his mother and hurt his wife against each other, resulting in you are now mutually exclusive. In fact, he silly enough to know Niangqin important, do not know his wife gave birth to a baby, when his wife left, he had to excuse me for him to see his Niangqin baby, and that in the end they are filial to his mother or his mother look for a job ah? many hundred and fifty men and a muscle so the wife to offend her mother, the wife Yaohong, to coax a good wife, my wife will be good for her mother, would do more housework thing. You do not mention divorce, his mother was not told the children with their parents you, yes, you send him home to their children, so her family and his mother are idle down, a beautiful gas? their own pro-grandchildren, they will try to keep good.
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4, female 21 (Anhui university) Male 20 (Guilin tertiary education), the two were classmates in high school, Communication for two years, a very good relationship. male young parents divorced, they are generally family, grew up in small towns. After college They are still the first six months by telephone, by March to Guilin to see men and women, men are pleased, but they are more sensitive to some small things for the distrust, sulk. men to send women to the station when the man cried. back to school after the female to male call letters, men did not return. This year the Chinese New Year they met again, just like the chat to friends, I feel very familiar, they still care about each other. women and men with a very practical sense, very substantial , want good, they feel no need, after all, they separated, together away from the more things there are still many uncertain future. women are contradictory, I do not know is to continue to adhere to or abandon?
understanding clear. both know that there are many things uncertain future, but also stick to what?
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5, my daughter 25, no courtship, he exchanges a few men, are not smug,UGG bailey button, may have been smaller, but not the value So far, all seem to be looking around seeking friends or a little older to find savings or find a young and promising unlimited potential, or to find local people have a house. women better than they perceived their conditions worse, may seem to experience Men do not how tricky, tired of life, have insisted on their own, nothing can rely on, fate also fleeting. years back it even more bored, seeding, also a lack of desire for food, I know I have many dreams, and know only their own strength increase is more carefree, but that is not the heart to work angry, tired, do not know how to make their full power to change the status quo?
want their full strength, only a fool way, anyhow: study hard, work hard. about men, not demanding, because you currently depressed again or re-vision of the future, you will find that being with a man around, not what you find, but He did not hit it, would not yield the level of his.
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6, he and I are divorced, He is my 1 year old, online acquaintances, and talk for 4 months, I feel good, meet and live together since January, very happy with him, he was a man very, very concerned about me that I needed, in particular, ML is a great feeling, the feeling has never been seen. In fact I am a conservative and very much like a family woman, because it is the second time in love, so his character and the current situation, there are always some sense of insecurity:
A 10 years old his parents divorced, he has been living with the mother, the mother in the 02 In death, his pain has been.
B he is college educated, I am undergraduate; his work is very common, no big development every day, goof, I work in state-owned enterprises, wages higher than his.
C his poor family, father stepmother are in rural areas, by working life; my parents is the official trade union, life is good, not burden. He is a bit inferior.
D are most worried about his drinking almost every day, and the amount of alcohol very good, at least one drink a bottle of white that is five or six bottles of beer, and then comes home late every day to know me from, I said he was, he sometimes does not go out, or sometimes with me, but every time to see to his drink, I was unhappy. asked if he could quit drinking, he said he did not want to lie to me, even now quit drinking, got married had to drink.
I am very contradictory, I do not care whether he is rich, As long as his life good enough for me. But now I do not worry about their future happiness.
you did together, are still unfamiliar with one another, first Do not think of marriage, cohabitation continue to run it. who are divorced , remarriage to a particular care and caution.
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7, I am 36, and grow some ugly, no confidence in marriage, but life is not a problem independently. I do not want to get married, looking for a child their own personal hygiene support. around friends are against! and this would also make me lose the public.
not Xiangjia Ren but would like to raise children, then adopt a bar on the welfare, both offer a loving, but also solve their own needs, why do you want your students? bastard in the world is already more than enough, even if you mercifully did not allow a child born and no father. have to be dismissed due to an unmarried mother, why was it.
hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh < br> 8, and ex-boyfriend broke up because, I go home for Chinese New Year Chinese New Year, I spent two months at home, during which I often call him, are do you work and life, concerned about his thing. then give him a call he had, and I said we should break up, because I always called him, he hates me for interrupting his work. I can not accept to call mad, he is not not take that pick up the meal scolded about face, and even scolded my parents. hey, I also really cheap, he scolded the re ugly, and I imagined that one day he calm down and think of me. He was very strong, then I would not call him, is not entangled, and would like to have passed so When not know these people. Now he came to me, apologize to coax me good. you know how amusing man who, like his bad economy, and prosperity, people are handsome, before me together also very good, I'm willing to spend money, do not mean that I and a little heart, and would like to say yes. but because the last thing my heart could not open the knot there.
people at work, you idle for people playing telephone, or points a time, angered the people, rave your meal, you are comfortable, and also divided. Ordinarily this matter to the end of the too prevalent custom, so you create this little girl and wonders: one eye guy, that guy has to react without you. Oh, can only say that you're lucky, come across a man who does not know Shajiao have kept their promises. If he wants a good, give him another chance, condition that dare curse, he must destroy.
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9, I get along with her boyfriend of 2 years, his family bought a new house, renovation nearing completion, ready to get married this year. but poorly paid, and now unemployed for several months. I chose him because his heart is good, very good to me; but also because he has a sense of responsibility, self-motivated; also because of his family in good condition. could not have been the cause of his own, has been engaged in front-line sales, thought he would get better, but feel more and more limited capacity of his work, for others they may not seasoned, so that peers are slowly rose to leadership positions, and his monthly expenses are not making even their own, the original income to small, is now basically zero income. I am worried that married life, he has been so worried.
men looking for men is to look at the conditions of the main, rather than his home conditions. often profligate dude, as long as no support the old, too poor to do nothing to boil, and owed much to his own ability not to create wealth. But looks like your boyfriend was a very practical person, not ability to make money is not on the hh earn money now does not mean he will also earn not on the money, as long as he smart, willing to endure hardship, able to stand up sooner or later. He did not stand up if you think the ability, it would have to imagine you can not assume the post of the family the mainstay of the economy, if not, this man really bad to be a . couple gotta have a capable, right? not all useless.
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10, a female 29, undergraduate mainland; a male 31, from Taiwan. They are colleagues, more than a year ago to determine a relationship . feeling is still good, and the man saw the woman's parents. Female Male each week with their parents on the phone once in Taiwan. But Taiwan is very stingy male of female, or even mean. travel expensive dinner parties, such as the Christmas dinner eaten nearly 600 yuan, send me a gift about 100 or so. One time I was ill spent 6000, he did not any of that. I'm relatively weak sense of money, and sometimes take the initiative to pay, or charge calls to help him, and he gladly accepted. Also, Taiwan Male family members, too many differences between words and deeds, the phone is really close as a family, greetings; Taiwan men to go home, the women let men bring gifts to his family, a gift few are official gifts, his family is old salute coat, the old bags, etc. ~
the most important and critical, to get married. Taiwan's male family members do not agree to buy a house in the mainland, not to support him in 2009 married men in Taiwan are paid a monthly salary of a part of the parents, so buy house his parents have the final say. now feeling hanging in here, I have 29 big girl, to have such a drag, can only be had with him, always let him call the shots; now leave him, I did not find the confidence as careful and considerate with him. Besides, he also has feelings and of the spirit of dependence. heart, very contradictory, I do not know where the future, I do not know to go to the left?
dinner to do more traveling, that he thought he was enjoy the beauty of food, you're just accompanied it, he did not want to abuse themselves, so willing; give you a gift mean, it is because you enjoy what is not on him. Similarly, his parents phone affectionate exception, you The salute was an old bag of old clothes, when you pass a beggar. The family's hypocritical cunning than most people can deal with, do you still obsessed with his daughter home. a word, silly.
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11, boyfriend computers also existed with the former girlfriend of the photos, but also move to a secret place. why he would not deleted it. He used to get my girlfriend in front of comparison, I feel a little uncomfortable. He said He really love me, he also said not forget ex-girlfriend, but to set aside. I mean? still his heart did not even forget the ex-girlfriend?
left photo to stay in picture it, right when the memorial service over the past years. But You often get compared and the former girlfriend, which was insane. as if he thought you ex-girlfriend, ex-girlfriend composite thing can go. after taking him to subconsciously than you and your ex-girlfriend, you tell him that you are prepared to When his former girlfriend.
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12, my boyfriend and I talked about two years, is not how one starts to feel like him, because I was numb, and he broke it off. so I feel the pain of lost love. (I do not know because I love him, or because he did not want to lose the pain of love?), and later met the parents, my parents oppose us, because we are not a city job after graduation, and parents feel His conditions are not ideal. parents raised me broke up, he asked me to resign with him, I do not know how to choose.
whether split or not, are not to go over his resignation. as opposed to your home, but also because of his condition itself is not Zeyang, once you can not find in his work, two people ye live?
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13, I graduated in June of this year, her boyfriend is the school teacher. a nice person, and I also thoughtful, But his heart still does not fit his ex-girlfriend. They are university students, exchanges five years, but broke up due to two separate places. boyfriend was still looking for work, hoping to find that the work of the city woman. we exchange two months, so I would like to forget his ex-girlfriend is excusable. talked to him once, he just ferocious said to have broken up. Do not break up like him? He has many female friends, some met online , and feel that their relationship is ambiguous, such as walking together holding hands, but they are people who take the initiative, he did not refuse. I am disgusted with this, told him, he said his friends all did. do not know how to do is to continue or abandon it?
continue does not matter, at most, for he often can not tell the former girlfriend or quasi-composite girlfriend, and his close friend who can join them holding hands, motionless frame arguing birth to a gas . If you can not find the other man, and you barely have to bar him.
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14, M 31 I 28, two months have relationships. sometimes I feel is developing too fast, think wrong, he external publicity I was his girlfriend (as played out in the street having an acquaintance). have had before, a common understanding friends know us. someone reminded me that he loves a woman who expressed before, I avoid contact with him. But I feel better to others, people skills are good, only a small number of friends and contacts around him. He likes to play cards, I take him but I do not fight, he always likes to hang like my daughter mouth, telephone do not let me look carefully preserved, I have read several times, did not find anything. former girlfriend also told me about things. I do not believe in oath, because greater than the disappointment felt hope.
to understand. others All are not biased evaluation, not necessarily free from bias, so need to look deeper, to avoid the rush and then rush to break up with.
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15, my boyfriend, 21, 22, with more than a month. before we have been single for a long time, from each other to fill the inevitable gaps in bachelor mean. He told me very general, he occasionally say something sweet, the first half of daily contact in the second half until a few days I send a message. I want to He also did not respond did not return. He has not for me to do. I want to know he liked me? or how I know he liked it?
chick, he does not like you, let her go. If not practical, go along the old text of a fight for the original problem, and I was so excited he will start, but soon to appease me. this afternoon I still think some things should let his mother know, and her courage on the phone directly, the results as the sister said Shun : The mother in this world are desperately toward his son. It is clear the error of her son, she blindly patrol. During that people who worked hard her new house is renovated, said her side two examples, beating about the bush and I got married BF also only allowed to live in new houses it, you must first honor them. Finally, to sentence: like, really can not let this evil old woman to succeed. her son though a bit (my opinion good), but at least now and love me, cajole me. I end and the old woman a half-hour telephone, immediately CALL him Of course not meant to say bad things about his mother, but I at least keep up BF clear.
things more complicated now, at least I think so, the original surface of the old woman is polite, do not know how secretly hate me! I'm extremely worried now. did not think his mother was such a person, the day the future with no more confidence. together nearly 2 years, whether the break up, and the calculation of the family so love marriages, really be suffering lifetime. a small woman, 26, teacher.
you are not asked for it disappointed you, to the prospective mother reported the status of your Groom, quasi-law of urine can you? marriage room to provide his home, really to worry about for a wife . as long as he rare you, not too much to listen to the words of his house, you can still marry him. Otherwise, the future may weigh the situation under the.
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17,21, and always wanted the simple life. her boyfriend of 2 years of online communication, have been to his house, I love love him, but my family did not want to marry me. divided not two months, I engaged and former boyfriend, he pet me. engagement after they changed, and I can not accept his lifestyle, his very male chauvinist, so I do not have private space, not anything to discuss with me. He is very mean to his family, the Spring Festival to the 100 face is ugly. My family has two rooms, said I choose marriage, not engagement optimistic about his family went to my new election. Let me also add a layer to coax my dad. engagement out of his house on the 500, and said with too much money, gift money, etc. fiance have to. I talked to him, also said he does not love the original, said a good point break off an engagement to long time delay, and now he is no such thing now as I'm in pain.
do not like, do not force their acceptance. his family calculated your house, huh, huh, if not married in your family room, this marriage would not have trouble not set.
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18, I engaged my high school class president. We schools do not speak, in July 2008 he went home to visit relatives, just about our family trustee, to meet only to find that high school students, and then we contact the phone from time to time, may we all a little embarrassed it. intermediate links is not too much, I sometimes can not remember his appearance on the .09 February 1, the family urged the two sides, he also agreed I agree to engaged. but my heart empty, and too short, like a dream. I He was 80 years 81 years. family feel that we had older. tell the truth, I hesitated. from New Year's Day to the seventh day, I did not sleep well the night before, could not eat rice. my sister said I was a phobia of marriage, you that is how I am?
you Not Fear of Marriage, you people are mainly afraid of and that too well, the students also do not become even. Now that you have engaged, engaged men and women should take it according to the steps to go, continue to communicate and continue to close, for full integration with each other like before.
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19, I am now suffering, my wife a few days in fact, bigger than me, she always like children depend on me, I really can not stand. My heart is very soft, sad to see may not look like a woman, but her life together, I feel the pressure big, tired. hope you can help me.
two ways: first step to exercise their physical ability and endurance, the tenacious wife trying to do soft backing; II for his wife, to find a cow with high Martha Shengruhongzhong the work deft and never give you any opportunity to call the shots of the woman.
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20 , I have a friend gave me a row played 13 times, I have not answered, because I angry with him. Now I feel a little sorry for him, I do not know how to do? to call him? that no face.
regret , it is necessary to save time. If not recovered, indicating that enjoy edge off, then do not have to mind the past, scores of right and wrong, nothing right when experienced.
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21, I fell in love with the son of a relative 6 years for a woman, the other is beautiful, ready to get married. woman suddenly fell in love with a company executive, foreign men. hundred advised not listen, that woman with foreign men living together as husband and wife were out. son is almost crazy, meals are waste, unkempt parents heartbroken. a good way to relatives out: take him to the Macau Grand Hotel sojourn a week, may cure the diseases of Acacia romance. parents desperately trying everything, the letter of the trial of the same to a week. Sure enough, the son of the spirit of a new look after a week, ungrateful former girlfriend did not care about the matter have been working hard on the person warm, generous nature to be his girlfriend. a confidential advice, said: Macau Hotel included the famous nightclub sauna rooms, of which foreign countries do have hundreds of young Clara, believed to be Lovelorn man named the wonderful treatment prescription. of this for a laugh.
I'm not laughing. we can go to Macau, state how many families live in luxury hotel? children from poor families romance was supposed?
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